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June 13th 2014
04:00:58 PM
Name (or nickname):  

kat b

Where from:  

canada, living in tx

Age:  

44

Condition:  

arthritic degeration at C4,C5, and C6

Hobbies & Interests:  

my dogs

Kind of pen pal wanted (eg. M/F, age, etc.):  

F, any age

A little about yourself:  

My name is Kathy, I am 44 and have been happily married for 21 years. I was diagnosed 2 years ago and have been suffering ever since, the pain is unbearable. Everyday I cry and of course being from Canada I don\'t have medical. I have lost my zest for life and just need someone in my situation to talk to.

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May 20th 2014
01:03:17 AM
Name (or nickname):  

brian

Where from:  

alabama

Age:  

32

Condition:  

DDD

Hobbies & Interests:  

well now its only watching tv playing with the computer and little things i can do around the house

Kind of pen pal wanted (eg. M/F, age, etc.):  

doesnt matter

A little about yourself:  

im 32 got diagnosed almost 3 years ago with DDD since that time my life has changed alot i have lost my job, my marriage fell apart,lost my car, wife has the kids,i tried killing myself, i moved in with parents who dont understand the pain and limitations and a bunch of other stuff that has happend due to this back problem anyways i like listening to all kinds of music mainly rock/metal and i like watching wrestling,nascar,the walking dead,family guy,american dad, the simpsons,robot chicken,criminal minds,supernatural,pawn stars and all those shows on history and discovery chanels and i love watching comedies the most just so i have something to laugh at ...i watch just about anything those are just my main go to shows

Other Comments:  

ask me anything

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January 9th 2013
09:07:15 AM
Name (or nickname):  

Karen Maudlin

Where from:  

Cincinnati, OH

Age:  

46

Condition:  

Degenerative disc disease

Hobbies & Interests:  

Taking care of my kids, shopping, listening to music

Kind of pen pal wanted (eg. M/F, age, etc.):  

Female, mother, wife, trying to cope with this disease.

A little about yourself:  

Hi,
My name is Karen Maudlin and I am 46 yrs. old, married and a former pharmaceutical sales representative. I have children, 17, 15, and 3 yrs. old. I have had two back surgeries, fusion of L5 & S1 (anterior approach), fusion of L4 &L5. I live in chronic pain and I have a spinal cord stimulator implant to help deal with the pain. I have trouble sitting, standing or walking. I am a fighter! I had to have the second back surgery because there was movement in the cage at L5 & S1 and a screw was touching my S1 nerve root. Talk out pain, I had to see a Revisionist back surgeon at The John Hopkins Hospital to fix it. This surgery helped by about 50%. I have a wonderful pain management doctor who has gotten me through difficult times. I am on Nucynta ER, Oxycodone for breakthrough, Celebrex, Cymbalta, and recently Neurontin. The Neurontin is helping with the compression feeling from the DDD and helping me to move a little better. Every day is a gift and I want to make the best out of it!
I miss working but, I don\'t know what I kind of job that I could do.

Other Comments:  

I\'m looking for a pen pal to share treatment options and give each other hope. I want to to help people with DDD in whatever way I can.

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November 11th 2012
06:33:57 PM
Name (or nickname):  

TAMMY JABLONSKI

Where from:  

NAVASOTA,TEXAS

Age:  

53

Condition:  

DDD,SPINALNERVEROOT DAMAGE L3-4,L4-5,L5-S1 RUPTUERED,LUPUS

Hobbies & Interests:  

GRANDCHILDREN,FAMILY CANT SEW OR DO OTHER HOBBIES

Kind of pen pal wanted (eg. M/F, age, etc.):  

SIMULAR TO MY SELF AND GODLY A MUST

A little about yourself:  

IN JULY OF 1999 I BLEW OUT MY L4-L5,AT WORK GOT CAUGHT UP IN THE SYSTEM THEY WAITED TO LATE FOR SURGERY,SINCE THAT TIME I WAS TOLD BY MULTIBLE DR.S TOO MANY DISK TO HAVE GOOD OUTCOME I HAVE CONSTANT BACK PAIN PLUS LEG PAIN,HOT ELECTRIC PAIN ACROSS MY LOWER BACK,LEGS,AND HIPS,ANY ACTIVITY PUTS ME IN BAD WAY,ALMOST UNBEARABLE,I CANT STAND UP OVER 15 MINUTES WITHOUT MY BACK AND MAINLY RIGHT LEG FLARING UP WITH BURNING ACHING PAIN,I HAVE TO LIE DOWN! I AM SO ASHAMED OF NOT BEING A WIFE, MOTHER, OR GRANDMOTHER LIKE I WANT TO. I HAVE TRIED EVERYTHING. I REST UP AND DO WHAT I CAN ESPECIALLY WITH THE G-KIDS, BUT I PAY DEARLY. I CANT SHOP,CLEAN,EVEN TAKE GOOD CARE OF MYSELF. I HAVE BEEN ON NORCO 10MG FOR YEARS. I AM ALLERGIC TO NSAIDS AND STERIODS ARE OUT! I HAD 10 INJECTIONS AT ONCE AND IT CAUSED ME PANCREATITIS!!! IT ABOUT KILLED ME IN HOSP.ECT. I CANNOT TOLLERATE EVEN SMALL DOSES OF STERIODS.THE ONLY COMBINATION OF MED THAT EVER HELPED ME WAS NORCO AND BACLOFEN, THAT WAS GREAT FOR A FEW DAYS UNTIL I ENDED UP IN HOSPITOL WITH STROKE TYPE SYMPTONS,DR. SAID NOWAY CAN I TAKE BACLOFEN AGAIN, I WAS THE ONE IN TWOO HUNDRED THOUSAND THAT HAD SERIOUS SIDE EFFECTS! I NO LONGER HAVE INSURANCE, BUT I AM THINKING STRONGLY ABOUT GETTING ON STRONGER MED. I REALLY AM VERY SCEARD BUT TIRED OF THE WAY I CANT DO ANY THING, IM PRAYING GOD WILL LEAD ME TO THE RIGHT MED FOR MY SITUATION.I HAVE A LITTLE 4 YEAR OLD GRANDSON THAT RECENTLY WAS DIAGNOSED WITH 4 HEART DEFECTS , HE WILL BE HAVING OPEN HEART SURGERY ON THE 30 OF THIS NOVEMBER, AND I WILL BE THERE UNTIL HE COMES HOME, HIS MOMMY AND DAD ARE LIVING WITH US RIGHT NOW.PLEASE PRAY FOR HIM AND FAMILY.I NEED TO FILE FOR DISABILITY SO I CAN GET SOME MEDICAL HELP.WELL WHEN I READ EVERYONES STORIES I FELT LIKE I WAS NOT THE ONLY ONE SUFFERING. I ALSO FEEL LIKE AND PLEASE NO ONE TAKE OFFENCE, THAT DR.S ARE NOT TREATING US REAL PAIN PATIENTS, BECAUSE OF ADDICTION WORRIES, AND WANTING TO DO EXPENSIVE PROSEDURES THAT DONT WORK AND ARE DAMAGING US MORE. I WAS SKEDULED TO GET A DENERVATION DONE AND MY HUSBAND WAS LAID OFF, HENCE NO INSURANCE,I BELEIVE GOD SPARED ME AS IV HEARD THEY ARE DAMAGING AND DONT HELP IN THE LONG HALL! I WAS ALSO CONSIDERING GETTING THE WIRES IMPLANTED IN MY SPINE TO SEND ELECTRIC SHOCK TO STOP PAIN,THEN I FOUND OUT MANY,MANY, PEOPLE GET SEVERE STAFF INFECTIONS DUE TO OPEN ACCESS TO SPINE. WELL IM GOING TO GO AHEAD AND GET STRONGER MED IN HOPES ILL BE ABLE TO EXERCISE MORE IM LOSING ALL MY STRENGHT, IV ALSO LOST MY REFLEXES FROM KNEES DOWN . THE DR IM SEEING NOW WANTS ME TO GET ANOTHER MRI CAUSE SHE SUSPECTS EQUINA SYNDROME.WELL HOPE WE CAN HELP ONE ANOTHER I WILL READ ALL LETTERS AND PRAY FOR ALL.YOU ALL HAVE MY HEART FELT IMPATHY.POOR THINGS.

Other Comments:  

I AM GLAD TO HAVE OTHERS TO LEARN AND SHARE WITH, BUT SAD THAT THERE ARE OTHERS IN MY SHOES.

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October 6th 2011
09:26:08 AM
Name (or nickname):  

Jan

Where from:  

Ontario, Canada

Age:  

60

Condition:  

DDD

Hobbies & Interests:  

playing piano, reading, knitting, yoga, home decorating, grandchildren, volunteering

Kind of pen pal wanted (eg. M/F, age, etc.):  

another lady around my age

A little about yourself:  

I'm retired and enjoy keeping busy with my many interests and hobbies.
Life is great but would be better without so much pain. Love to hear from you.

Other Comments:  

I had a terrible fall on the ice 3 years ago, and have been in a lot of pain ever since. My life and activities revolve around trying to keep my pain meds up so I can function. I'd love to talk to someone else who might have ideas or experiences with different treatment approaches.

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October 4th 2011
10:24:12 AM
Name (or nickname):  

Kathy Patrick

Where from:  

Cincinnati, Ohio

Age:  

39

Condition:  

DDD, disk degeneration, and spondylosis

Hobbies & Interests:  

reading romances, painting, gardening, hiking, animals, family

Kind of pen pal wanted (eg. M/F, age, etc.):  

Female

A little about yourself:  

I love to play with and spend time with my family

Other Comments:  

Am a great pen pal!

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September 6th 2011
03:03:45 PM
Name (or nickname):  

Kim

Where from:  

Iowa

Age:  

37

Condition:  

DDD

Hobbies & Interests:  

Mother of 3 boys

A little about yourself:  

Please email me so we can chat.

Other Comments:  

Please email me!

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November 3rd 2009
12:46:23 AM
Name (or nickname):  

Angel

Where from:  

Tennessee

Age:  

35

Condition:  

DDD

Hobbies & Interests:  

sewing, playing with my kids, playin pool, swimming, workin with animals

Kind of pen pal wanted (eg. M/F, age, etc.):  

any help would be nice

A little about yourself:  

I found out I had DDD just a few weeks ago, but I have been having problems for years and no dr would listen to me about it!! Now I don't know what to do cause I hurt a lot of the times. I feel bad not being able to be an active parent and go play football or other games with the kids. If anyone can help me understand this a bit better I would grealy appreciate it. I just want the pain to stop and be normal!!!

Other Comments:  

I want to be in better health but DDD is just part of the problems I have!

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January 3rd 2008
07:46:46 PM
Name (or nickname):  

Iluvcanecorso

Where from:  

PA

Age:  

40

Condition:  

DDD, bulging disc

Hobbies & Interests:  

Hiking, swimming, reading, flower gardening

Kind of pen pal wanted (eg. M/F, age, etc.):  

just some who can relate

A little about yourself:  

I'm trying very hard to be upbeat as I get ready for an Epidural Steroid Injection (shiver) I hope it's nothing like the spinal tap I had. I asked what the alternative to this injection was at Pain Management and I was told Tylenol & heat, I felt like I was slapped in the face, was that supposed to be some cruel joke?

Other Comments:  

Isn't there a tried & true way to deal with this pain? I've been dealing with it for 2 years now

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April 22nd 2007
03:46:29 PM
Name (or nickname):  

Sonnie

Where from:  

Des Moines

Age:  

37

Condition:  

Spinal stenosis, DDD, spondolythesis

Hobbies & Interests:  

weight training, walking, scuba diving, familytime

Kind of pen pal wanted (eg. M/F, age, etc.):  

young at heart, optimistic at times, similar symtpoms

A little about yourself:  

37, back pain since 23, chronic for years, difficult pregnancy, tried everything, can't have fusion -too many bad discs. Have to live with pain and make the most of it.

Other Comments:  

Has anyone tried spinal decompression?

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March 6th 2007
10:12:38 PM
Name (or nickname):  

Lynette

Where from:  

Michigan

Age:  

29 and holding

Condition:  

DDD

Hobbies & Interests:  

My kids, scrapbooking and sports

Kind of pen pal wanted (eg. M/F, age, etc.):  

Any one who can relate

A little about yourself:  

I am a recently diagnosed DDD sufferer. I felt as though I was in the prime of my life, when recurring pain became more than unbearable the last few months. I am a college student with three kids; 6 (who is autistic), 4 and 1 1/2, all of whom I adore - and whom I feel I am letting down. I have become unable to play with them, do things for them and meet some of their smallest needs. This is not how life is supposed to be, is it? I am looking to meet people who have been going through this, and maybe can offer some advice, or some helpful tips. I had the "I will beat this" attitude when I got home from the doctors, but after investigating and reading - it seems as though I must approach this with "how do I cope" attitude. Anyone out there who can bring something to the table, it is greatly appreciated.

Other Comments:  

Looking to cope!

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March 1st 2007
11:33:43 AM
Name (or nickname):  

patricia

Where from:  

reynolds ga 31076

Age:  

48

Condition:  

ddd ra

Hobbies & Interests:  

clean houses yards

Kind of pen pal wanted (eg. M/F, age, etc.):  

f anyage

A little about yourself:  

crying

Other Comments:  

Iwant to get well and stop hurting all time

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January 18th 2007
11:14:39 PM
Name (or nickname):  

Cindy

Where from:  

Dayton Ohio

Age:  

43

Condition:  

Intractable Pain

Hobbies & Interests:  

reading romance novels, used to love doing things with kids and husband

Kind of pen pal wanted (eg. M/F, age, etc.):  

anyone who can help me, support me, give me advice!!!

A little about yourself:  

Okay was diagnosed with DDD in 2002 by my PCM (Primary Care Manager-MD) was told I would be on a specific treatment plan did the plan and lived my life normally, one year later in 2004 my PCM left (military Doctor) recieve care at military base, hubby is active duty. Anyways got new doctor and he decided to stop my pain management the other doctor had me on and gave me nothing, so switched doctor, this doctor wanted to put me back on previous anti-inflamatory and muscle relaxers which stopped working a year prior and my original doctor put me on a narcotic and muscle relaxer (flexril), told this doctor was down that road before and way pass that, but to appease this doctor said I would do it, Dec 2005 and Jan 2006 went to ER with Chronic Back pain and my back locking up in a bent over position server pain in lower back through the front right side in pelvic region and down rigt front side of thigh to knee 4 different times in a two month span, then switched doctors again, another MRI performed and found another buldging disc now have two in L3 and L4, this doctor put me on Glucosomine which did nothing then put me on ELevil which caused me to have suicidal thoughts, chest pains, nausea, constipation, server lathargic and moodiness. Stopped that med and from 2005-2006 have locked up on 5 occasions, I am only on mobic, and now for the past two months went from having pain and burning sensation when lying on right side to now having burning sensation and server pain in middle of lower back to the front right pelvic area to the back of right buttock, down in the back of my right thigh all to my ankle and my calf muscle on right side cramping all the time either sitting or lying down. The Doctors on base are doing nothing, they are passing me off from one doctor to another, nothing is being done and I am in constant chronic pain, can not clean my house, do laundry, have intimate relations with my husband, and all the doctors at the base just want to send me to mental health and call me crazy....I have no one who understands, I do not know what to do, I am tired on no-one listening and nothing being done, and getting worse and having no pain relief. Can anyone please help me??????????? Am I going crazy????????? Oh and by the way I am a mother of three girl 20 boy 16 and boy 7.
It has been two years now and have been in chronic pain with no pain relief, except for those times I have had to go into ER.

Other Comments:  

I am tired on feeling like I am a bad mother a bad wife and just over all home provider

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December 13th 2006
08:29:17 PM
Name (or nickname):  

Nancy

Where from:  

Bartow, Fl

Age:  

58

Condition:  

DDD, Osteoarthritis, Cervical facet syndrome, Cervical Spondylosis, Cervicalgia, Neuroforminal spinal stenosis

Hobbies & Interests:  

Love animals, bowling, gardening, swimming

Kind of pen pal wanted (eg. M/F, age, etc.):  

any

A little about yourself:  

Born and raised in Niagara Falls, Ny, moved to Central Fl in 1983. Married, 2 grown children

Other Comments:  

Would like to know what treatment people have received and if it help? Also has anyone applied for Social Security Disability and what was the outcome?

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October 21st 2006
10:08:14 PM
Name (or nickname):  

Lynzee

Where from:  

Indiana

Age:  

18

Condition:  

Ruptured Disk, Narrowing of the Spine

Hobbies & Interests:  

Internet, Video Games, Reading, Horror Movies, Cats, Dogs

Kind of pen pal wanted (eg. M/F, age, etc.):  

:) Anyone

A little about yourself:  

I'm getting ready to have back surgery, 10/30/06

Other Comments:  

I'm glad I found this website.

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September 19th 2006
10:49:00 PM
Name (or nickname):  

Whisler

Where from:  

MI

Age:  

24

Condition:  

Annular tear in L5-S1, mild bulg of L4-L5, and bulg in T1-T2.

Hobbies & Interests:  

Watching sports, education, stem cells, technology.

Kind of pen pal wanted (eg. M/F, age, etc.):  

Someone around my age between 21-26

A little about yourself:  

I have suffered from back problems for 3 years now and every day, month, and year my health gets worse. I was once very much involved in sports and running, but it seems time has pasted me by. I am on a handful of medications and hate the person I have become, because of the pain. If I had a dollar for every time a doctor told me I am too young for the problems I have, I would be well off. I am a shell of the person I once was, but the good news is that my condition will not kill me. :) Wow that is great I get my own personal torture.

Other Comments:  

I have done more research then most people spend time doing their taxes in a life time, trying to find my cure. For all of you new to your back problems let me save you some time and sleep. THERE IS NO CURE! My advice do what you can now, because you may not beable to do it again.

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April 9th 2006
10:21:18 PM
Name (or nickname):  

Randi

Where from:  

Illinois/Michigan

Age:  

34

Condition:  

ddd, nerve root imp, spinal stenosis,

Hobbies & Interests:  

pugs, crafts, receipe xchange

Kind of pen pal wanted (eg. M/F, age, etc.):  

female any age with confirmed diagnosis to talk

A little about yourself:  

I am married and have three children. The condition reared it's ugly head about 6 years ago after the birth of my second child and I was orginially told it was my pelvis that didn't "grow" back together properly after pregnancy. That was not true had surgery in 8/2005 and have been on horrible medications since and probably forever. Have been fighting disability for a year and I am waiting for a hearing date at least I have someone representing me which should help with the procedure.

Other Comments:  

n/a

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November 10th 2005
12:00:45 PM
Name (or nickname):  

antonella

Hobbies & Interests:  

europe

Other Comments:  

good guestbook :). hello .from europe!. this .is free guestbook ?..

   
October 23rd 2005
01:34:12 AM
Name (or nickname):  

bella

Hobbies & Interests:  

Online drugstore

Other Comments:  

Life is good)! pharmacy USA

   
October 14th 2005
09:15:07 PM
Name (or nickname):  

...

Hobbies & Interests:  

maria

Other Comments:  

Nice site :) good book_)

   


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